tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post115663042200353515..comments2023-10-21T05:29:01.439-04:00Comments on Becoming: My Worst EnemySunny Delighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09813476500121784003noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-1160362627409530362006-10-08T22:57:00.000-04:002006-10-08T22:57:00.000-04:00rose--i hope so, i truly hope sorose--i hope so, i truly hope soSunny Delighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09813476500121784003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-1160243970596727722006-10-07T13:59:00.000-04:002006-10-07T13:59:00.000-04:00Sunny, I'm glad that my words opf wisom have made ...Sunny, I'm glad that my words opf wisom have made you take a closer look at yourself. Perhaps together you and I can learn to love ourselves and quit caring what others think.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-1156823193121729782006-08-28T23:46:00.000-04:002006-08-28T23:46:00.000-04:00Sunny hen (a scottish term of endearment for a wom...Sunny hen (a scottish term of endearment for a woman *L*)<BR/><BR/>I know what you mean, it's hard some days....and bloody hard on others. And there are days I tell myself what a stupid, insipid failure I am when I look in the mirror. But there are also days I look and see pretty eyes or hair or lips and say ... today you can rise above whatever life throws at you and smile no matter what.<BR/>Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-1156789789038038852006-08-28T14:29:00.000-04:002006-08-28T14:29:00.000-04:00fi darlin'--I love the coworker humility thing...I...fi darlin'--I love the coworker humility thing...I may have to use that someday *S*<BR/><BR/>The poem from Dale Wimbrow...once I read it through I remembered it too...and it does read soo true...just so hard sometimes to not take the blame/complaints/etc. that others lay at my feet...my armour is so full of dents and chinks no wonder some barbs slide through.Sunny Delighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09813476500121784003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-1156763391309316512006-08-28T07:09:00.000-04:002006-08-28T07:09:00.000-04:00aaah here it is - ever since reading your opening ...aaah here it is - ever since reading your opening quote I've been trying to figure out where I heard something similar:<BR/><BR/>The Guy in the Glass<BR/><BR/>by Dale Wimbrow, (c) 1934<BR/><BR/>When you get what you want in your struggle for self,<BR/><BR/>And the world makes you King for a day,<BR/><BR/>Then go to the mirror and look at yourself,<BR/><BR/>And see what that guy has to say.<BR/><Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-1156749095078346612006-08-28T03:11:00.000-04:002006-08-28T03:11:00.000-04:00And has a lovely smile too ;)Well hon, look at it ...And has a lovely smile too ;)<BR/><BR/>Well hon, look at it like this...I've met a few people who really do love themselves and I'd not want to be one of them. Just the other day, after a meeting, I handed one of my colleagues an envelope and said "I think you dropped your humility"...and just walked way.<BR/><BR/>Part of our charm is a slight edge of self-deprecation and being humble. <BR/><BRFionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727596416170770024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-1156692690714457822006-08-27T11:31:00.000-04:002006-08-27T11:31:00.000-04:00Phil, thank you, you are a gem among men. ~smile~...Phil, thank you, you are a gem among men. ~smile~<BR/><BR/>I know I am not universally liked that is a given....no matter the circumstances. It is when my abilities at work, or home come into question...the two areas of my life most tied to my self-esteem, then the cuts go too deep. Finding the proper protective armour without it blocking out too much is a fine line, one that I don't think I Sunny Delighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09813476500121784003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-1156677502125636692006-08-27T07:18:00.000-04:002006-08-27T07:18:00.000-04:00Sunny, I think we all can slip into self-doubt at ...Sunny, I think we all can slip into self-doubt at times if we don't get the approval of everyone all the time. It says something positive about you that hearing something unkind said threw you for a loop. It says that most of the time you feel well liked by all and were shocked when for a moment you learned that wasn't universal. It doesn't say anything bad about you or your coping skills that itPhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09410795209306696264noreply@blogger.com