tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post2157678179833904110..comments2023-10-21T05:29:01.439-04:00Comments on Becoming: Split DecisionsSunny Delighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09813476500121784003noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-47635171857039849552007-12-05T18:47:00.000-05:002007-12-05T18:47:00.000-05:00He probably won't even realise that the decoration...He probably won't even realise that the decorations are missing. It's not a man thing. It always surprises me how especially women, think about going back when they have finally made the break. The way is forward....truly.S'meehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07023485967426646643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-50336677644351286972007-12-04T20:55:00.000-05:002007-12-04T20:55:00.000-05:00deb,That quote resonates deeply, much of our earl...deb,<BR/>That quote resonates deeply, much of our early years together, and his attempts to "control" me were guided more by his fears than my own, until I began to learn the self-protective behaviors to get through it.Sunny Delighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09813476500121784003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23026828.post-19892029355551017052007-12-03T23:07:00.000-05:002007-12-03T23:07:00.000-05:00I'm reading a book right now, "finding Meaning in ...I'm reading a book right now, "finding Meaning in the second half of life" by James Hollis and there was a line in it that reminded me of your husband.<BR/><BR/>"Their urgent desire for power is a measure of theirn inner powerlessness. How little they realize that their behaviors are a continuing confession of what they fear."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com